DJs in Brunei .... a comparison study ... bwoh!!! macam case study saja ...

wah!!!! comparison study konon!!!!!... tp on DJs in BRUNEI????? aduiiiiiii!!! Geng bukan mengata ah ... tapi ani yang ku observed as a listener bah ...

I'm one of the listener yang nda setia pada satu station (terus terang ku katakan - kes belot lah especially if news on air ...) tp most of the time i listen to KFM pulang cos its my fav channel & my fav djs (kan semua lah ... kecuali .......) Iatah bah, one channel ani (tidak perlu disebut ..) HAIRAN bin AJAIB ku ... sal sebilangan DJs nya ani .. a bit BIT*HY, as far as im concerned, ada jua peraturan yang diberikan utk DJs ani ketika ON AIR.

What im trying to highlight here is .. DJs di KFM lebih berADAP compared to that station ... bukan being BIAS ... tp yang banarnya .... I even realised that those DJs teriak2 tah saja, screaming, shouting antahlah .. apa lagi jenis style becakap (no word can explain!!!!!!) pokoknya .. sakit telinga mendangar .. mun tym migraine ... menjadi2 lagi ... (some of you myt say - jangan pulang di dangar!!!! well, sambil nunggu news abis d KFM sebab atu tah mendgr ...)

Another thing ... when ada caller .... walaupun DJs yang bertugas atu nda suka, irritated, annoyed by the caller .. layan saja tah iaaaaa ... bukannya membalasiiiiii ... menjatuhkan maruah or making FACES (mun muka atu lawa bisai jua) .... baik lagi ada caller ... mun nada ... aduiiii nda menjadi show!!!!! Kena nominate saja jadi the WORST EVER DJ on EARTH!!!!! hahahahahahaha!!!!!

I know being a DJ ani bukan lah perkara yang mudah .... esp. masa ON AIR, lontaran suara mesti maintainnnnn ... namanya entertainer ... sakit, damam, frust, stress, tension dan sewaktu dengannya ... terpaksa di tinggalkan d luar pintu studio buat sementara waktu .... apart from that ulah mesti senunuh macam d KFM durang ada webcam cos orang bukan saja mendengar tp menonton DJs yang bertugas ... and one more thing ... bukan seorang saja yang mendangar ..... tp ribuan ... mungkin jutaan pendengar!!!!

Akhirnya .... I still prefer listening to KFM .... U R THE BEST!!!!!! Even the DJs ... bisai, berakal, hormat, mendulur pendengar with their request songs, rajin membaca dedications (usin x tu SMS ah ... balik2 mengantar .. berapa sudah spend tu .... ), most important thing is .... BERSOPAN SANTUN .... baru ya!!!!! Syabas DJs KFM .. maintain ah ......!!!!!

Enjoying Sushi ...

Went to excapade for lunch tadi, ramai kami ... 10 orang kami .. meriah banar .. riuh rendah excapade oleh kami ... one of kami atu first timer makan sushi .. habis lah ia ... VICTIM of the day!!! hahahahahaha....Eating sushi for the first time bukannya mudah ... (banyak kan difikirkan .. lain lagi ada email yang ada giuk dalam otak ... welllll ... bukan jua selalukan ..) back to the cerita ... by looking at my fren's face tadi ... sian bah ... he was a bit of shocked looking at the food .. selalunya makan, makanan yang bemasak .. ani jadi kucing makan ikan mantah ... hahahahahahaaha.

May be tadi atu he tried to figure out how to separate the chopstick .... kan betanya malu ... so another fren of mine ani mengajar at the same time menyaya ia ... can't stand laughing eh ... tym menaip ani pun i still can picture my fren ani trying to separate the chopstick ... aduiiii ... imagine chopstick turn to CANDAS...... payah makan sushi ... after he figured out, we asked him to eat sushi with wasabi .... sian ia ... he was choking to death!!!!! hahahahahahaha ... (cana kan ni ah ... kesian tp ketawa!!!!) Bukan pulang apa .. sal biut membiut bah muka ah menahan .. hahahahahahahahaha

My 1st experienced eating sushi was better than ani eh .. baik jua kawan2 ku atu orang yang baik2 belaka, nda penyaya ... (bukan pulang kawan2 ku masa ani jahat .. )


To my fren ... selalu2 tah sama2 kami makan sushi k ... this time nda lagi kena nyaya ni ... for sure .... sal u pandai sudah makan .... hahahahahahahaha

Being annoyed, irritated.......ANGER?????

I was reading a beautiful and meaningful story - its the story of NAIL IN THE FENCE...... I think most of you have read this story but i purposely paste it here to remind me of the effect of POST-ANGER!!!! .. hehehehehe

Once, there was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passes and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, 'You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'M SORRY, the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.

The moral of the story applies to all type of ANGER .... via verbal or action, direct or indirect, hidden or exposed, body language (all means lah!!!) Apa nya orang ... ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.

Iatah kadang2 we dont realized the effect of it could leave a deep cut in ppl's heart/feeling. I remembered that day, a young lady who used to smile and laugh with me turned to be annoyed with me (nda tau kenapa????) lain kali cakappppppppp ... i don't mind!!! though you were tired kah, stress kah, PMS kah .. so what gitu loh! Respect lah sikit ... 'it won't matter how many times you say I'M SORRY. the wound is still there' banar pulang tu ... as a human we tend to FORGIVE but NOT TO FORGET .... cos once hurt ... forever we will remember ... kecuali for orang2 yang babal ... atu lain cerita! I will still remember tu ... and layanan will not be the same way lagi tu ....

Value of Friendship

This morning i opened my email - 'KAWAN tu macam mane' from a friend of mine. It caught my interest in reading it:-

• Kawan tu bukan macam PELANGI, hari cerah takde... hujan gerimis baru muncul....


• Kawan tu bukan macam BANK, bila dah take de duit, pegi kat sana ambil


• Kawan tu bukan macam CHIPSMORE, sekejap ada, sekejap tak da ....


• Kawan tu bukan macam RAGBI, mula-mula tangkap.... dah dapat tendang ....

by looking at those above, banyak banarnya, kadang2 kita tidak mengetahui erti sebuah persahabatan. Could be we value our friends just like RAINBOW, ..... that appears only at certain time .... or could be like a bank, once we are out of $$$$ ... we just withdraw from the bank.... well ... i'm not sure how ppl value their friendship.

What i do noticed, most of us admire a sincere friendship that will last forever, but some would only take advantage of their friendship in order to fulfill their needs and wants; in other word, being selfish.

One more thing that is so common in our life, kawan hanya akan timbul sekiranya partnernya sedang bercuti or in a state of WAR ... baru beunjar nama2 kawan dalam reserved list. Why some people macam atu????

Kalau tah boleh, jangan ambil kesempatan arah kawan-kawan ani .... cos u would never know, one day u really need their help. If ia tau yang dirinya atu dipergunakan, this would spoil the friendship ...... and once sudah hati terluka ... its gonna be bad .... payah banar tah tu untuk mempercayai lagi ......

The Power of Friendship, Exploration and Self Discovery

Anaiis Nin once said, "Each friend represents a world in us, a world of possibility not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born." We all want to connect with others, to feel truly seen and heard and honored for our true self, to belong to a community, a family. We want to give and receive love. This begins with how we show up, how we choose to nurture connections in our lives, and what our intention is. As with all things in life, if our commitment is to live an exceptional life and we feel a lack of connection with others, then we have an opportunity to create new friendships and/or to revitalize old ones. (taken from ezinearticle.com)

Cinta yang terpendam ......

Last night i was talking to my friend yang melepak2 di rumah, banyak cerita2 yang dikongsikan .. ada ada saja!!!! .. She told me about her relationship with her long lost lover (cinta 18 tahun lalu!!!) now she is 41 ... She was too excited menceritakan kisah cinta yang terlarang ani lah ... ceh!!! mcm lagu Rindu Yang Terlarang (D. Yull & B. Marantika). Biar masing2 mempunyai pasangan, tapi cinta mereka masih mekar..... aduiiiiiiii, macam org muda-muda bercinta ... banyk angan2, muka banyak senyum, Bahagianya cinta bersama mu .... hahahahahaha (napa dulunya nda meluahkan perasaan.... napa now????)

Lately, banyak kisah cinta (suka duka) yang people share with me ... so sweet! Ada yang sudah bercinta bertahun-tahun putus jua (seperti ku pernah dengar ya???!!! Mcm lirik lagu "Jangan Bilang Tidak".

It is so sweet to fall in love again ... perasaan yang berbunga-bunga, if orang tua2 meliat, they will just say ... 'bukan apa tu, nda puas bujang'.... but!!! wen come to think about it... orang tua2 ani jua yang selalunya mem'pressure' utk berkawin .... cana kan tu???? Then if timbul ada masalah dalam keluarga atu ... timbul jua rasa menyesal ... then sharing with the close person .... aduiiiii slowly2 timbul rasa simpati ........ lama2, jadi cintaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa......

Love is a universal feeling ..... sukar untuk kita memahaminya, tapi yang paling peliknya, orang lain pulang yang pandai menilai cinta tani ... how could this be????

STOPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!

To my fren, think wisely before proceeding to the next step.... bnyk tu perkara harus diambil kira ..... dont b so selfish my fren!!!!

The power of $$$$$

Have u ever wonder how strong the power $$$$$???? I alwez dreamt of having plenty of $$$$$ to fulfill my dreams... but impossible lah!!!! Having plenty of $$$$$ could make you insane jua .... semua kan d bali .. even people pun boleh dibali with $$$$$ suka or nda suka belakang kira! Yang penting KAYA!!!! ... Kuat nya pengaruh $$$$$ ani ah.....

I observed, $$$$$ memang menjadi peranan paling penting dalam kehidupan tani seharian, without $$$$$ ... we're NOBODY!!!! Nobody would looked at us!!!! Nobody would make friends with us!!!!! One thing for sure, People don't want to know about you!!! Walaupun sebanarnya kenal berabis!!!! This is what i'm gonna describe here, the power of $$$$$.

Ada jua logiknya phrase ani 'bersakit-sakit dahulu, bersenang-senang kemudian' (walaupun nda kait mengait with the story yang ku buat ani .... tapi ada jua banarnya!!!!) - cos time nada berapa ada $$$$$, keadaan tubuh badan pun banyak berpenyakit ... (iatah bah! Sakit-sakit!!!!!), tapi sudah $$$$$ banyak atu ... segala-galanya lancar, mcm nda pernah wujud sakit atu!!! Yang sakit kaki boleh berjalan dengan lancarnya, mungkin yang peramah dulunya (penyakit yang kuat bercakap), bertukar jadi pendiam due to 1). takut if luan peramah ramai org kan minta belanja; 2) sanang sudah cos people ramai sudah tau ia so nda payah bnyk cakap!!! ... hehehehehe, well, setiap orang ada alasan tersendiri once they have plenty of $$$$$.

Tapi ada jua yang calinya, people say that 'NO $$$$$ NO TALK!!!!' to some people ... they would just act as if they have $$$$$. Berlagak seperti orang kaya ... tapi pocket kosong!!! Yang penting asal dapat bergaya!!!! Kapih belakang kira!!!! .. hahahahahaha

Well that's what you call life!!!!! susah senang kehidupan dengan $$$$$.

Kepada yang tersendir, yang terasa, (i guess nada x eh ... ) minta maaf, mungkin ada perkataan yang kurang menyenangkan .... tp anggap ja sebagai renungan bersama!!!!

Friday,13th

Friday, 13th sambil tersenyum ... macam-macam email yang diterima, Alhamdulillah ... bersyukur jua ku at least pernah menerima email pasal Friday, 13th ani ... dulu-dulunya, nda ku tau apa Friday, 13th ani ... yang ku tau .. my fren cakap ... be careful saja, banyak bad lucks. But now, if durang cakap macam atu lagi ... sanang saja ku membarus arah durang .. especially yang muslims atu.

Now i realised, these are some techniques yang di pakai oleh kafir LAKNATULLAH mengubah pemikiran orang2 islam tani.... anak2 muda masa ani ... they believed bad luck will happened every Friday, 13th. Tapi sebagai orang islam ... Hari Juma'at adalah Penghulu segala hari, then we looked lagi rukun sembahyang tani .... ada 13 dari memasang niat hinggalah ke salam dan tertib. Get what i meant?????? Ada pun if bad luck atu .. nda semestinya menunggu Friday, 13th!!!!

One more thing ... tani selalu mengeluh every Monday!!! .. Common guyz ... as a muslim we have to change this perception ... Hari ISNIN ... HARI NABI MOHAMMAD diputerakan; napa mesti mengeluh kedatangan hari Isnin?????? Ask urself.....

hurt by someone ....

Have u ever experienced this???? Selalu kali ah .... i wont believed if nda pernah dilukai ... mungkin secara terang atau tidak, sengaja or not .. pokoknya tani sendiri yang merasainya.

mengapa orang yang selalu kita sanjung terlalu 'tega' (indon version!) menyakiti hati kita ni???? napa???? Kadang-kadang tani boleh keliru jua dengan penghantaran txt melalui SMS or cyberworld; iatah masalah nya ni ... boleh membawa kepada buruk sangka. macam2 personal text orang .... ada yang melucukan .. ada yang touching .. ada yang feeling .. ada yang frust gitu loh sampai berdoa supaya Tuhan mencabut nyawanya!!!! aduiiiiiiiii .... hebat!!!

By observing, i realized that org yg menyakiti ani ada perasaan marah arah kita ni ... kadang2 durang nda tau cara meluahkan!!! ... mungkin jealous, buruk sangka ....

anyway, biartah ku cermin diri ku sendiri ... MUNGKIN I ALWEZ NYAKITI HATI ORANG JUA TANPA D SEDARI - KES BERACUNNNNNN .... kepada yang berkenaan ... ampunnnnnn .... maafffffff .... manatau ada kekasaran bahasa melalui percakapan, tulisan, perbuatan ... kita hanya manusia biasa ... tp kalau tah boleh .... jgn tah menyakiti hati org ... if "TER", say sorry immediately. jangan lagi belakon ego!!!!!

Life goes on dear .... with or without u around.

yesterday ... was history

yesterday, went to KB, batah sudah nda ke KB ani ... from Bandar we (me & jerry) betolak kul 1, then sing

gah ke rumah tutong kajap mengambil barang kan di antar arah family frenz.  Around 2 lah tu kami menuju ke KB, dalam perjalanan menuju ke KB, the first thing kami spotted was tmpt org accident (yang mengorbankan 4 nyawa), i was on the phone that time, oleh sebab ada polis berdirian tmpt kejadian atu .. terpaksa pakai loudspeaker .. hahahaha ...

orang dangan ku ani .. ad

uiiii nama saja orang brunei ... tp geography of brunei pun failed!!! ... ada kah patut telisai diucapnya lumut .. hahahahahahaha.  

oleh sebab orang yang kan diaga ani berada di BS

B ... so kami berhiburl

ah menikmati keindahan Seria, jauh2 membali minyak kereta di Seria, then singgah ke Masjid Pekan Seria, sampat lah zuhor di sana.. i like the masjid, bersih! tmpt berwudhunya pun lawa!

then we visited OGDC, maklum tourist ku bawa ani .... macam2 ulah2 kami.  Then we had a great hi-tea with our fren.  Btw, payah jua nda makai kacamata ani .. tot it was RESERVED PARKING ... iatah nda berani parking .... sekalinya ... hahahahahaha REVERSE PARKING!!!!!! Anyway, while waiting for org KB ani sampai, we made a surprised visit to b'day celebrant - Windluv, bukan pulang kami yang bagi hadiah .. ia pulang bagi kami.

roughly around 5.45pm baru tah kami menuju ke KB, aduiiii jauh banget!!!! sakit belakang.  At least nda jua payah menuju ke rumah sheikh khalid.  spent roughly sejam labih .... bedudun banar! ....  after dat i had to attend my foreign language class lagi .. baik ja ku txt uztazah sudah mengambil paper saja!!! ...

to conclude ... walaupun ngalih after long journey ... tp siok lah, bnyk rezki, melawat masijd, melawat OGDC, kena belanja, kena bagi hadiah ... aduiiiii semuanya adalah kenangan!!!!!! 

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